Here are 5 qualities a man should develop to become an ideal muslim husband and a muslimah should seek in her husband. The ideal muslimah the true islamic personality of the. She is a woman of moral excellence, true to her nature, not confused by alien and morally bankrupt ideas. Though this book outlines the ideal muslimah personality as it should be according to the quran and sunnah husbands, sons and daughters will also draw very much benefit from it. Use the beauty allah azza wa jal has bestowed you with to win the heart of your husband. This is the second installment of the ideal muslim muslimah series. Divorcees a sisters analysis from sister um hamza people think. The ideal muslimah we are in this together mufti menk. The husband who thinks his wife just wants to have a leash on him is inflaming her desire to control him by being inconsiderate with his schedule. Muhammad ali alhashimi marriage in islam in islam, marriage is a blessed contract between a man and a woman, in which each becomes permitted to the other, and they begin.
When i first saw this book on my friends bookshelf, i immediately know that i want to own all the series the ideal muslim, the ideal muslimah, and the ideal muslim society. One of the most prominent distinguishing features of the muslim woman is her deep faith in allah swt, and her sincere conviction that whatever happens in this universe, and whatever fate befalls human beings, only happens through the will and decree of allah swt. She will treat her husband properly, and a woman who treats her husband properly is unlikely to fail in fulfilling her duty towards him. Translated by nasiruddin alkhattab published by international islamic publishing house unlike most other materials on this web site. He cannot be other than an ideal husband, so his wife enjoys his gentle company and close companionship, no matter how long they stay together. The ideal muslimah is with mahmoud fathi and 7 others. The wife who resents her lazy husband is encouraging his resistance by her nagthenpunish complex. The ideal muslim woman and her relationship with her husband. Sep 20, 2015 10 beautiful aspects of an ideal muslimah. It is one of the teachings of islam that a woman should make herself look beautiful for her husband, so that her husband sees of her that which he likes.
The ideal muslimahthe true islamic personality of the muslim. She never contradicts her husband, always cooks his favorite food, defers to him in all financial issues, bears with silent endurance any shorting of her rights. Jul 29, 2011 an excerpt from the book the ideal muslimah. It is obligatory on you o muslim woman to obey your husband in matters of good. Share responsibility for your daily life, and enjoy one anothers company. The ideal muslim woman and her husband the quran blog.
Muhammad ali alhashimi translated by nasiruddin alkhattab ive always found that buying presents for women is extremely easy, and now i have another suggestion to add to the list of recommended gifts the book. She understands that a strong believer is more loved by allah swt than a weak believer, as the prophet pbuh. She always points out to her daughter anything that will please her husband and make him happy, and encourages her to undertake the duties of a wife and mother in the best way possible. She would never tell him a lie even in a small matter because it will sow in him the seed of doubt about her trustworthiness in greater matters. No doubt, a righteous muslim husband is an ideal of every muslimah. Marriage needs intention and attention, a lot of it in clear and precise doses. If she asks her husband for permission to go out to the mosque, he is not allowed to stopher, as the prophet pbuh stated in a number of hadith, for example. In this way she will appear more beautiful and attractive to him, and make her husband, allah willing, love her more. Dec 08, 2010 10 beautiful aspects of an ideal muslimah. If she notices any shortcoming, negligence or carelessness on the.
She covers from head to toe in voluminous black clothing, uncovering nothing of her face and only one eye to see her way on the road. She avoids talking and laughing so as not read more. It is very rare to find this attitude among those who are not sincere muslims. During this discussion shadeed muhammad expounded on the many misunderstandings within the islamic community amongst many men. Tumblr is a place to express yourself, discover yourself, and bond over the stuff you love. The ideal muslimah is proud of the great position that islam has given her among humanity. A practicing muslim man loves to have a practicing muslim wife. There is no doubt that the womans deep sense of cleanliness reflects on her home, her husband and her children, because it is by virtue of her concern for. How can single muslim sisters prepare for marriage. The obligation of an ideal muslim husband does not just stop at providing for the family. This incident presents a valuable lesson to the muslim woman on the importance of keeping her husband s secret, and the effect this confidentiality has on the stability of the individual and the home. Zainab bint younus is a canadian muslimah who has been active in. Even if we do not take into consideration her patience, endurance and hope in reward from allaah the almighty, could a wife who dedicates her entire life to her spouse and children not have the keys to her husband. To connect with the ideal muslimah, join facebook today.
Shall i tell you the most precious thing a man can have. The ideal muslimah the true islamic personality of the muslim. My mum left me for her new husband after my dad was killed and i was injured in the same airstrike. When she embraced islam, her husband malik was angry with her, and left her, but she persisted. Rather he joked around with her and dealt with her. Together you can strengthen each others faith and live a pious and loving life. Satan will try to convince women that they have the right to challenge the boundaries of their existence. The ideal muslimahthe true islamic personality of the muslim woman dr. Muhammad ali alhashimi 2 translators foreword publishers note preface to third edition preface to first edition chapter 1. Lastly, i approached the question what is an ideal muslim husband by asking muslim women to tell me what they thought. Marriage is like a plant, when you sow the seed you need to give it attention.
The true islamic personality of the muslim woman as. To be a successful muslim wife, show your husband love, respect, and affection, and ask that they treat you in the same way. My mum left me for her new husband after my dad was killed. The muslim woman makes herself beautiful for her husband by means of makeup, clothing, etc. The muslim men are ranked as caliphs for this world. A ideal muslim husband the sincere true muslim abides by the clear, unambiguous texts of the quran which command him to treat women fairly and decently. In islam, marriage is a blessed contract between a man and a woman, in which each becomes permitted to the other, and they begin the long journey of life in a spirit of love, cooperation, harmony and tolerance, where each feels at ease with the other, and finds tranquillity. The ideal muslimah celebrating muslimah sisterhood.
She was married to malik ibn nadar, and bore him a son, anas. Oct 21, 2018 the ideal muslim and ideal muslimah, books by dr. Muhammad ali alhashimi 1 the ideal muslimah the true islamic personality of the muslim woman as defined in the quran and sunnah dr. A few questions here who should you get married to why should you. The ideal muslimah the true islamic personality of the muslim woman as defined in the quran and sunnah. Pages interest the ideal muslimah videos we are in this together. She cleans her home with a thoroughness that would shame the keepers of the kaaba. Aboo hurayrah reported that allaahs messenger sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam said, if a woman prays her five daily prayers and keeps her private parts chaste and obeys her husband, she will enter paradise from any of the doors of paradise she wishes. Even if we do not take into consideration her patience, endurance and hope in reward from allaah the almighty, could a wife who dedicates her entire life to her spouse and children not have the keys to her husband s heart. Dua for single muslimah for her future husband background.
Concluding, the ideal muslim husband has a strong and likeable personality, a noble attitude, tolerance and forgiveness for minor mistakes, strong adherence to the laws of allah and determination to apply them to his family, generosity without being extravagant, and a clear understanding of an ideal. The last time i was invited to speak about the ideal muslim wife, i made a promise that my next assignment would be to prepare a lecture on the ideal muslim husband. A true muslimah is the one who is alert, knowledgeable, true to herself as well as to others. Though this book outlines the ideal muslimah personality as it should be according to the quran and sunnah husbands, sons and daughters will also draw very. Nov 30, 2015 no doubt, a righteous muslim husband is an ideal of every muslimah. She performs her duties knowing that her role is clearly defined and that her rights are still, even today, greater than what any other ideology has provided. Regarding the ideal muslim wife, the prophet saw said. So, to become an ideal husband, you have to be an ideal muslim. The ideal muslimah is proud of the great position that islam has. A true muslimah is the one who is alert, knowledgeable, true to herself as. Islamically, obedience doesnt mean that a woman is in a state of blind submission to her husbands every whim or command.
A true muslimah is the one who is alert, knowledgeable. Muslim husband i focused on the duties of the husband and in this book i focus on those of the wife. Jul 24, 2018 this is the second installment of the ideal muslim muslimah series. He salallahu aleyhi wasallam did not start reprimanding her telling her she should welcome her husband with open arms and be sorry. All women have the ornaments that allah blessed them with. How do i stop my best friend from always complaining about her husband, in laws, her job and her children. The true islamic personality of the muslim woman as defined in the quran and sunnah. Muslim women struggle and seeing the other alternatives in the world they make a comparison, thus their struggle deepens. See more ideas about cute muslim couples, quran, muslim quotes. The muslim women and her husband indiana university.
She performs her duties knowing that her role is clearly defined and that her rights are still, even today, greater than any other ideology has provided. The true muslim woman knows that islam, which has multiplied her reward for obeying her husband and made it a means of her admittance to paradise, has also warned every woman who deviates from the path of marital obedience and neglects to take care of her husband, that she will be guilty of sin, and will incur the wrath and curses of the angels. If a wife tells a lie to husband to cover up her something else she did, she only compounds her offence. Olaika yujzawna alghurfata bimasabaroo wayulaqqawna feeha tahiyyatan wasalama those will be rewarded with the highest place because of their patience, therein they shall be met with greetings and. In islam, a husband is supposed to protect his wife like his daughter and respect her like his mother. The muslim woman makes herself beautiful for her husband by means of make up, clothing, etc. Muhammad ali alhashimi translated into english nassrudin alkhattab. The ideal muslimah muslim woman islamic clothing and. Muhammad ali alhashimi 3 chapter 3 the muslim woman and her parents she treats them with kindness and respect birrone of the main distinguishing characteristics of the true muslim woman is her respectful and kind treatment of. This an incredibly sane book, which can help a woman who is truly female, keep her head on straight and not get lost in a very dangerous game where she only stands to lose.
The true believer does not oppress or mistreat his wife. Therefore, if we love and fear allah, we should give our spouse their rights and act according to the sunnah of prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam. The ideal muslimah and her husband council of exmuslims. We have also taken recorded incidents in the life of the prophet saws as an illustration of an ideal muslim husband in action. In this way she will appear more beautiful and attractive to him. The ideal muslimah 3rd revised edition in line with the 4th arabic edition by. Attributes of the ideal muslim husband islam question. Its where your interests connect you with your people. Brings peace, comfort, and pleasure to her husband. Be the type of husband that a wife describes in such a manner. An ideal husband is supposed to be a brother, a protector, a friend, a lover, a confidant and a soul mate. Every husband who demands obedience from his wife first needs to learn immense patience, love. Women are required to be the slaves of their husbands, their parents, their husbands parents. Men create and define the concept of ideal muslimah but it is through the hands of women that these ideas get rooted and spread.
In islam, marriage is a blessed contract between a man and a woman, in which each becomes permitted to the other, and they begin the long journey of life in a spirit of love, cooperation, harmony and tolerance, where each feels at ease with the other, and finds tranquillity, contentment and comfort in the company. Beautify yourself for your husband beautify yourself for your husband print email the muslim woman makes herself beautiful for her husband by means of makeup, clothing, etc. Muhammad ali alhashimi 5 weaken her energy with late nights and bad habits. To get the total picture of their mutual duties the.